What A Mama Does

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Sometimes I worry too much. I can worry about the cleaning that doesn't get done enough. About the sewing that I want to do and the dreams I have for myself on the creative path, but find so little time for. But most of all, I worry about whether or not all the juggling I sometimes feel I have to do with those oh so few hours in a day is leaving my little ones with enough space, attention and time with their mama. Because in the end, they ofcourse are what really matters.

But this morning my little girl was playing with her dolls. And while she was tucking in her bunny I overheard her whispering softly to it:

"You can go to sleep now. I am your mama and I am right by your side. And when a mama is with you, you never have to be scared. She takes care of you and never will let you fall. And she even can sew a pretty dress for you so you can be a true princess!"

I think I should worry a little less.

PS. I only just now realise that the little blanket and cushion that she is playing with was sewed by my mother when I was a little girl. I can remember how much I played with it and how happy I was that she made all these lovely items for me, to play with or to wear. I guess that illustrates what I needed to learn today :-)

7 comment(s) for “What A Mama Does”

  1. Gravatar of ThimbleannaThimbleanna Says:
    Wednesday, March 03, 2010
    Awwww. That's sooooo sweet (it brought tears to my eyes)! Your little angel must have a fabulous mama role model!
  2. Gravatar of daandaan Says:
    Wednesday, March 03, 2010
    wat ontzettend lief en waar.
    we need to worry less ;-)
  3. Gravatar of GG Says:
    Wednesday, March 03, 2010
    I feel you
  4. Gravatar of KatieKatie Says:
    Thursday, March 04, 2010
    Thanks for sharing that! I had tears here, too.
  5. Gravatar of RachelRachel Says:
    Thursday, March 04, 2010
    Lovely post! You must be doing everything right from your daughters words, so sweet. I think cleaning cooking etc is very much superflous to the mother role.
  6. Gravatar of Karin @ madebykKarin @ madebyk Says:
    Monday, March 08, 2010
    Oh what a precious moment for you to tuck away into your memory!

    ...This has reminded me of a train of thought I've been thinking about recently -- too much to go into here, but has to do with my oldest being at the age now to which I can remember back and still recall vivid memories. That helps me see the world through her eyes just a little, because i can recall how *I* saw the world at that age... and that helps me not worry so much that I ruining my children. : )
  7. Gravatar of JennyJenny Says:
    Wednesday, March 10, 2010
    I think every good mother worries about this. What a precious moment you overheard! I found your blog through your link on Colette Pattern's blog and had to come by. I too am a mother of three who loves to sew. You have a beautiful blog! I'd love for you to stop by my blog and say hello when you do. So nice to meet you!

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