Setting An Example
Yes really, I am trying it again. I picked up the needles and yarn and started knitting. Something simple and sweet this time. And I am going to finish it.
A couple of years ago I probably, with a grand dramatic, frustrated gesture, would have thrown the knitting needles out of the door when I didn't succeed to knit something the first time. Or out of the window for that matter. But this time it's different.
I could say that I grew up. That I am a bigger woman now, more in touch with myself. More in control of my impulses. Euhm.. well... to be honest: That is not entirely the case.
The truth is that I feel six little eyes watching me. Every move I make they see. Every frown and every smile they notice. And I realize that I don't want them to learn to give up when they encounter a setback. That I want them to learn to enjoy the process of learning something, working on a skill and finally mastering it.
Albert Einstein said:
Setting an example isn't the main means of influencing another, it is the only means.
So I carry through. Thanks Albert.
But this setting example thing doesn't only apply to knitting. And not only to the little ones either. I guess it's part of getting older for me; The feeling that it's not only about you anymore. That it does matter what you do, how you influence other people. That it's important that you can be who you want to be, but that that's not always the same person as who you need to be.
How about you? Who is watching your actions, following your footsteps? And do you try to be an example for that person, do you do things or not do things because of that, or doesn't it influence your demeanour at all?
My name is Karin. I sew, cook and
take pictures. I tell stories. I dream. I love books, fashion, hot
baths, conversations that make me re-think my ideas and opinions. I
fantasize and realize. And above and beyond all, I am mama to
Lucas, Sarah and Olivier.
